In the real estate business we often hit cases where a buyer
may need to tap into the Bank
of Mom and Dad or perhaps another relative. Many times these transactions take place in
secret, without the buyer informing his mortgage company. The common attitude
is, “What business is it of theirs if I get some help from mom and dad?” Unfortunately,
it is their business and they will discover it anyway when they look at the detailed
bank statements that the underwriter will ask to see perhaps going back as long
as six months or more.
Why is that their business? Well there are a couple of
reasons that mortgage underwriters look to see where the money is coming from
in a real estate sale. One reason is an unfortunate sign of our times and that
is that real estate sales have often been used by drug dealers to launder their
ill-gotten gains. Any large sums (and not that large to attract attention) that
flow into the buyers account in the last six months will be questioned and documentation
demanded for the source of those funds. If you sold something else, maybe
even another
property, and the money came from that, you will need to document that sale.
Perhaps the money is coming from parents or relatives. That’s
not illegal or necessarily bad, if it is a gift; however, the underwriter is going
to want proof that it is a gift and not a loan, which would count against your
debt to income ratio. You will be asked to provide a letter from the person
giving you the money that states that it is a gift with no expectation of it
ever being paid back. If there is any
expectation that you’ll pay it back “once you get on your feet”, it will be
treated like a loan and probably screw up your debt to income ratio and could
cost you the mortgage.
I’ve also seen buyers go out and spend money for things
like furniture for the new place or maybe even a new car after they’ve been
pre-qualified, but before the underwriting is done. They also think, what
business is it of theirs if I buy furniture or a car. What does that have to do
with the house mortgage? Any new and big expenditures like those will also
impact your debt to income ratio and could screw up the mortgage process.
The bottom line is that once you apply for a mortgage, your
life becomes an open book, at
least to the mortgage underwriter. He/she is
going to want to know everything about your and your finances. The amount of
detail that the underwriter may ask for and the depth to which he will probe
may surprise and even annoy you; however, he is trying to learn enough about you
very quickly to make a call for the bank on whether or not you are a good credit
risk and will be able to repay the loan. You might not be able to repay it if
you are in jail because it was drug money or if you also have to repay that relative who
so kindly “loaned” you that money for your down payment.
So, it really is their business and they are usually very
good at it, so don’t think you are going to outsmart them with a wink and a nod
to your parents about their “gift”. The penalties for fraud, which is what that
would be, are quite stiff and could even land you in jail right next to that
drug dealer.
























with two this year that have never been on the Home Tour before. Several homes will also feature entertainment by various individuals and groups. Proceeds from the Milford Home Tour go to support the operation of the Milford Historical Museum.
purchased at several downtown Milford locations prior to Saturday – Acorn Farm, Main Street Art, Your Nesting Place and the Milford Historical Museum – or at the homes that are on the tour either day of the tour. Tickets are $15 for Adults and $13 for seniors. This year’s homes are located at 624 N. Main St, 324 S. Main St, 104 Second Street, 957 S. Main St and 1018 Atlantic St. For more on the houses that are on this year’s Home Tour go to the web site
of indie rock at the new LaFontaine Family Amphitheater, from 7-10 p.m. on Saturday, Sept. 19. Presented by Huron Valley State Bank and the Milford Downtown Development Authority, the concert is curated by Milford’s own Sean Lynch and will showcase three local and regional bands in one night, including hometown band 800Beloved, Grand Rapids-based Dear Tracks and Detroit’s Missionary. The concert is free to the public and will feature all original music. The LaFontaine Family Amphitheater is located in downtown Milford’s Central Park.
On Sunday, September 18, downtown Milford will be turned into a giant parking lot for the 32 annual Milford Car Show – the largest area car show of the year. Cars of all ages and type will be on display with show attendees getting to vote for their favorite cars in several categories from vintage streets rods to modern muscle cars. Over 250 cars are expected for the Milford Car Show which will open to the public at about 10 AM. Cars start showing up much earlier than that ad line up from Main and Commerce Streets all the way down to Central Park. For more on the Car show, go to
parking lot at the corner of GM Road and Milford Road. Tractors of all sorts show up for this annual event; from working farm tractors to lawn tractors. There have even been a few steam engine tractors in the past.
